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Bridegroom Speech – How To Get Prepared

Dec 23, 2009 Writing and Speaking

Although it has been a wedding tradition for many many years, bridegrooms still haven’t gotten used to the idea of delivering a bridegroom speech in front of everyone on their wedding day. No matter how much you repulse the idea, there simply is no good reason not to do your best and stand in front of everyone for your speech.

The good news is, there are plenty of things that can help you get prepared, here are some of them.

Plan ahead of time – It would save you a lot of time later if you can jot down the things you would want to say on your speech right after you have decided on the wedding date. The ideal thing to do is to list all the people you want to thank, anecdotes you would like to share and funny one liners that you think would get your guests some good laugh. Develop the speech as the day approaches and add details when necessary. This way, you’ll have half the problem solved as you shift your attention to other things.

Even if you feel confident of speaking extemporaneously, your performance would still be better if you are well prepared.

Use some prompt cards – You won’t lose your face if you will use some prompt cards so don’t be afraid to get yourself some. These cards are made to help remind you the key points of your speech. These still work well even if you already know your speech by heart.

Edit and practice regularly – Once you’re done with your first draft, print it out, proofread it and practice how you will deliver it. The best and easiest route to perfecting your speech is to put it on paper, for some reason this allows the reader to see the errors in the speech clearer than when reading it on the screen. As you edit your speech, remove and replace unnecessary sections, words or expressions, this helps in polishing the content of the speech.

Once you’re satisfied with your speech, start practicing it. Ask a friend to serve as an observer and later, ask him for his evaluation. Ask them for their comments and be sure to note their observations. If you’re running out of time, practicing in front of the mirror. Take note your gestures, your intonation, your facial expression and the general manner you deliver your speech and modify according to what you think is good. Doing these tricks polishes as much as help you prepares you for the big day.

Relax – Get some rest the night before the big day. Getting enough sleep is integral in the delivery of your speech as this could help lessen the anxiety you would be feeling as you anticipate the moment when you have stand on the podium. Take a hot shower, relax in a bath tub with aromatherapy oils for relaxation, or drink some relaxing tea. Whichever way you do it, so long as you’re in bed early, it’s good.

Use a funny one liner in your bridegroom speech – Jokes have the power to make your audience laugh and you to relax. If delivered right and in good timing, you will have something that will amuse both you and your listeners.

Simple preparations for your upcoming wedding and bridegroom speech could go a long way in delivering that perfect speech. For more tips, visit my website.

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